IN THIS ISSUE:
FRONT ROW
- Youth- and School-Based Sports: Cheers or Jeers for Anti-Booing Guideline?
- Professional Sports:
• NFL to Follow NBA's Lead on Player Misconduct
• Angry Fans Demand That Knuckleheads Go
- Googling With: Pete Rose
- Jocks Behaving Badly:
• All Serbians With Tractors Can Play ...
• Bloody Cricket – Who Knew? ...
• Boon for Hockey: Cheap Shots Can Save Lives ...
- Jocks Behaving Exceptionally:
• Golfer Wins Despite Penalizing Self ...
• Sportsmanship Decided This Match ...
• Coach's Gesture Wins Victors' Respect ...
• A Few Sportsmanship Lessons From the CIF ...
- Michael Josephson Commentary: Two Kinds of Coaching
SIDELINES
- Announcements
- Trivia Test: What Famous Sportsmanship Gesture Was a Telegram?
- Sportsmanship User's Guide: 10 Character Secrets From Major Leaguers
- You Make the Call: Should High Schools Curb Booing and Heckling?
- Principle of the Month: Respect Your Opponents, Don't Hate Them
- Say What?
- Upcoming Seminars
It is always your next move.
-- Napoleon Hill, author (1883-1970)
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FRONT ROW
YOUTH- AND SCHOOL-BASED SPORTS
Cheers or Jeers for Anti-Booing Guideline?
Everybody talks about unruly fans, but nobody does anything about them.
Well, now people are. The question is, are they the right things?
In Italy, after a policeman died in a soccer riot, the government declared matches would be played in empty stadiums until security standards were improved.
In Edinburgh, Scotland, verbal and physical abuse against youth-club referees have caused so many officials to quit that coaches and parents now officiate games.
And in Washington State, negative fan conduct has made it so difficult to hire high school coaches and officials that the Washington Interscholastic Activities Association launched a campaign to discourage booing, heckling, foot stomping, and derogatory yells, chants, songs, and gestures.
Boos Get the Bird
The decision has elicited a lot of...well, boos. Because high schools are allowed to regulate student expression on campus (unlike at colleges or professional sports events), some fear such a crackdown could put high school sports under the control of Boo Brother.
"I wouldn't know what to do if I were at a sporting event and no one booed," USA Today sports columnist Christine Brennan told ABC News.
At Sports-law.blogspot, Howard Wasserman wrote that restricting negative or offensive comments would not only violate freedom of speech ("Government cannot require people to keep things positive") but would be unenforceable ("Offensive to whom – the usher? The school administrator? The most sensitive/least tolerant person in the audience?").
Wasserman cited the "Salad tosser!" chant that Kansas students heaped upon Texas Tech basketball coach Bobby Knight a few years ago following his altercation with his chancellor at a salad bar.
Praising the students afterward for their clever, nonabusive serenade, the Kansas coach and administration did not realize what the term means in slang.
Ah, the Sweet Boo Birds of Youth
Although some hecklers are obscene and violent and can ruin a sporting experience for others, some are the stuff of legend. Columnist Steve Kelley of The Seattle Times wrote that booing is part of the fun. "I grew up in Philadelphia, where booing is as much an art form as an aria by Handel. The fans were as mean as Donald Trump at a Rosie O'Donnell roast.
"We even booed the booers if we felt they were booing the wrong player. Eagles fans get ripped because they once booed Santa Claus. But I was there. The guy was skinny and his suit looked cheap. So we booed him."
[www.abcnews.go.com, 3/4/07; The Seattle Times, 3/5/07; www.sports-law.blogspot.com, 3/6/07; Los Angeles Times, 3/6/07; www.sport.scotsman.com, 3/12/07]
Man is so made that
when anything fires his soul,
impossibilities vanish.
-- Jean de La Fontaine, French poet (1621-1695)
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PROFESSIONAL SPORTS
NFL to Follow NBA's Lead on Player Misconduct
Ever since Ron Artest of the Indiana Pacers triggered perhaps the worst brawl in pro basketball history by charging into the crowd at The Palace of Auburn Hills in 2004, NBA Commissioner David Stern's iron rule became an iron fist.
This season officials call more technical fouls, rough play warrants lengthy suspensions, players adhere to a strict dress code, league spotters cite players for on-court infractions, certain nightclubs in major cities are off-limits. The NBA has undergone an image makeover.
Although nothing of the magnitude of the Detroit-Indiana brawl has occurred in an NFL game, off-field incidents certainly have. More than 50 players ran afoul of the law last year, culminating in Tennessee titans cornerback Adam "Pacman" Jones's involvement in a brawl and shooting at a Las Vegas strip club (his tenth brush with the law in two years) that left one person paralyzed.
When a co-owner of a strip club says the NFL is "starting to look like an organized crime family," the league has a problem.
Football Summit Tackles Image Problem
At a recent NFL conduct advisory committee meeting dealing with the issue, one of the participants, T.J. Houshmandzadeh of the Cincinnati Bengals, said pro players are fed up with the bad apples who are poisoning the league. "That isn't how the majority of guys carry themselves," he told ESPN.com.
He said often the best way to handle problem players is to let the veterans deal with them. But they don't stay around long because teams release so many of them each year. "Without those guys, it's the blind leading the blind."
Former player and NFL players union president Troy Vincent concurred. "When I walked into the locker room, I shut up when John Offerdahl walked in," he told ESPN. "Today, there's no respect."
The key, many say, is character. More and more teams are dropping promising college prospects into lower draft rounds if their character is questionable.
It's about "preserving our game," Vincent told ESPN after the meeting.
[www.sports.espn.go.com, 3/13/07]
Action springs not from thought,
but from a readiness for responsibility.
-- Dietrich Bonhoeffer, German pastor, theologian (1906-1945)
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PROFESSIONAL SPORTS
Angry Fans Demand That Knuckleheads Go
Frustrated at players humiliating their NFL team and city by off-field incidents, some fans have taken the matter into their own hands.
Tennessee Titan fans, irate over Pacman Jones's 10 brushes with the law in the last two years, launched Nopacman.com. The site says, the "time as come for the Titans to sever ties with this unruly character."
Visitors are asked to sign a petition for his ouster, enter a contest to guess when he will be arrested again, and purchase NOPACMAN stickers to help the paralyzed victim of the Las Vegas shooting that Jones's party was involved in.
Coaches aren't immune either. At Redshirted.com, fans can buy fireyourcoach domain names. There they can host online message boards, sell branded merchandise, and rally support for their cause. They can even target other coaches by destabilizing them (if they're good) or supporting them (if they're inept).
In an attempt to turn this questionable practice on its ear, the University of Iowa bought up seven of the site's domain names that pertained to its coaches and administrators. The URLs now redirect people to HawkeyeSports.com, the main site of Iowa athletics.
Just one problem with that. There are endless domain-name possibilities for any subject. Shortly after Iowa bought the rights to firekirkferentz.com, anonymous individuals purchased Fire-Kirk-Ferentz.com and FireFerentz.com.
Mike Hlas of the Cedar Rapids Gazette wrote: "If you're trying to sleep in the Puerto Rican rain forest, will snuffing one of the thousands of chirping frogs make it a quiet night?"
Others aren't that concerned with what fans think. They question the wisdom of individuals who paint the sides of their face different colors and wear giant cheese triangles on their heads.
As Coach Marv Levy said, "If you listen too much to the fans, you'll soon find yourself sitting with them."
[Associated Press, 3/11/07; http://packers.aolsportsblog.com, 3/14/07; http://jets.aolsportsblog.com , 3/15/07; www.nopacman.com; http://blog.sportscolumn.com, 3/19/07; http://thewizardofodds.blogspot.com]
At one point in your life,
you either have the thing you want
or the reasons why you don't.
-- Andy Roddick, tennis player
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GOOGLING
with Pete Rose |
current odds, Hall of Fame nomination
patent search, "Big Red Machine" slot machines
Amazon.com, Tax Preparation for Dummies
patent search, "Charlie Hustle" running shoes
tycobb.com, total hits
peterose.com, total hits
current odds, Reds' managerial offer
patent search, "Run, Don't Walk" traffic signals
eBay, "Sorry I Bet on Baseball" autographed mitt
Supercuts, "flop top," "soup bowl" trademarks
current odds, Bud Selig retirement
patent search, "Headfirst" playground slides
Sports Book greeter application, Caesars Palace
autograph signings, Gamblers Anonymous
current odds, pigs will fly |
Be an all-out, not a hold-out.
-- Norman Vincent Peale, preacher, author (1898-1993)
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JOCKS BEHAVING BADLY
All Serbians With Tractors Can Play ...
The soccer coach for Football Club Mramor in southern Serbia probably regrets his decision to leave midfielder Slavomir Milnovic off his starting lineup.
The player stormed off the field, went to his family's farm, drove his tractor back to the field, and plowed it up.
We assume he's now starting for the local jail team.
[www.montereyherald.com, 3/2/07]
Bloody Cricket – Who Knew? ...
For 800 years, nary a peep out of the noble, genteel sport. Then Scorcese's brought in to direct.
Scene 1: Match-fixing, doping, and illegal bowling-action scandals.
Scene 2: Rumors of organized crime, bookmaking rings, and shadowy deaths.
Scene 3: Pakistan coach Bob Woolmer is strangled to death hours after 1) galleys of a book he'd been writing, rumored to expose match fixing, mysteriously disappear and 2) Ireland, a "rank outsider," routs his heavily favored team and eliminates Pakistan from the Cricket World Cup.
Final Scene: After injuring a finger prior to the World Cup, New Zealand player Jacob Oram declares he'll do whatever it takes to play in the tournament. "If it means cutting the finger off, I'll do that. There's no way I'm missing this."
Movie tagline suggestion: "Cricket. We're bigger than U.S. Steel."
[www.montereyherald.com, 3/2/07; www.time.com, 3/23/07]
Boon for Hockey: Cheap Shots Can Save Lives ...
During a recreation-league game in Meadow Lake, Saskatoon, a local goon named Nolan Crighton intentionally cross-checked referee Dale Neudorf in the face. The ref was taken to a hospital and treated for a broken nose and split lip.
During the examination, x-rays and a CAT scan revealed a tumor in Neudorf's brain, which may have saved his life. He is scheduled to have surgery to remove it.
Police are still looking for Crighton. Whether they intend to arrest him or thank him has yet to be determined.
[www.montereyherald.com, 3/2/07]
If you want to share any videos, photos, or stories like this, e-mail us at CharacterCountssports@jiethics.org and put "Jocks Behaving Badly" in the subject box.
To report acts of poor sportsmanship to the NCAA's Committee on Sportsmanship and Ethical Conduct, click here.
My mother taught me to believe
I could achieve any accomplishment.
The first was to walk without braces.
-- Wilma Rudoph, track athlete (1940-1994)
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JOCKS BEHAVING EXCEPTIONALLY
Golfer Wins Despite Penalizing Self ...
When you're ranked 265 on the professional golf tour, have had to go to qualifying school ten straight times to remain on the tour, and have never won a pro tournament, the desire to win can be all-consuming.
Which is why what Mark Wilson did last month at the Honda Classic tournament all the more remarkable and exemplifies why golf is still the most honorable of sports.
After Wilson teed off on the fifth hole in the second round, his playing partner, Camilo Villegas, asked his own caddy what club Wilson had hit. Without thinking, Wilson's caddy, Chris Jones, answered for him: "Oh, it's an 18-degree [hybrid]."
Players and their caddies are prohibited from giving "advice" to anyone but each other, but Jones's comment was borderline because golfers are allowed to look in competitors' bags to see what they've used. Nevertheless, Wilson promptly contacted an official, who agreed that a violation had occurred.
Wilson was assessed a two-shot penalty. Instead of shooting the low round of the tournament and being one shot off the lead, Wilson dropped three shots back. His caddy broke down and wept. "I felt so bad about what I had done to him, our team, his wife, and family," Jones told the South Florida Sun-Sentinel.
Despite the setback, Wilson finished in a four-way tie. On the third playoff hole, he rolled in a ten-foot putt for the win, earning $990,000 and catapulting him to number 86 in the rankings.
He had no second thoughts about calling the penalty on himself. "If I had not, every time I looked at that trophy it would be tarnished," he said.
[South Florida Sun-Sentinel, 3/6/07]
Sportsmanship Decided This Match ...
It was match point between Mission Viejo and Newport Harbor high schools at the Orange County Volleyball Tournament last month. The serve bounded off a number of players and went out of bounds. Did a Newport Harbor player touch the ball last?
The referee said she was blocked from view. The two linesmen hadn't seen it either. According to the rules, the point would be played over.
Newport Harbor coach Dan Glenn slowly walked over to the ref and informed her that he had seen the play, and the ball had gone off one of his players. She changed her call and awarded the point, game, and match to Mission Viejo.
Scott Truman, a Mission Viejo parent at the game, sent a letter to Newport Harbor's principal afterward. It read, in part:
I can't tell you how impressed I was with your coach's action. Yes, it was the right thing to do, but in the heat of competition not all coaches would live up to such a high standard. My simple thought was, "Wow, that's class."
It occurred to me later how important teachers like Coach Glen are to all of us. For about 30 seconds, that court became his classroom, and all of us got the same lesson in ethics. My son and I discussed it on the drive home. Frankly, I was more pleased by Coach Glen's lesson than Mission winning the match.
I went to your school's website, and I noticed [Michael] Josephson's words on the Pillars of Character. Your volleyball coach is walking the talk.
Coach's Gesture Wins Victors' Respect ...
It was a heartbreaking loss for the Greater Houlton Christian Academy in the Eastern Maine Class D girl's basketball semifinals in February. Washburn had eliminated them by the narrowest of margins, 49-47.
As Coach Terry Cummings led his teary-eyed players out of the locker room, he spotted the winners in the hallway. He called Washburn's coach and players over for a moment.
"It's easy to say something before a game, but can you say the same thing after?" he asked them. "I can tell you, yes I can. There's not a team I would have rather lost to, as hard as it is. I believe we motivated you guys to get where you're going, and we wish you the best."
[Bangor Daily News, 2/22/07]
A Few Sportsmanship Lessons From the CIF ...
Got sportsmanship? Rarely have we seen sportsmanship permeate an organization or region more than in the California Interscholastic Federation. Below is just a taste of what's happening around the CIF on a daily basis. For more examples, click here.
It is not often a school wishes another school good luck, but in the case of Menlo-Atherton, Gunn High School wishes them the best of luck in their game tonight at Mitty High School.
As you all know, M-A defeated [us] two weeks ago in the quarterfinals to end the Titans' season.
In this day and age where it seems the only schools that win in basketball are private schools or public schools with transfers, M-A is a refreshing reminder that a school with homegrown talent can go far.
– Gunn High School website editorial
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After a long drive, we were greeted at the door of the King City gym with a sign stating WELCOME HALF MOON BAY. This display of good sportsmanship didn't stop there.
King City's coaches, players, and fans were welcoming and supportive. Throughout the match, their fans cheered for the many outstanding plays, regardless of which team won the point.
After the game, a King City parent stopped to compliment us, stating, "Now that's what playoffs are all about!"
One of the refs also approached us and said in all the games he has officiated, our game was the best display of sportsmanship he had ever seen.
– Deanna Rocha, Half Moon Bay volleyball coach
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I happened to find myself next to Seta Pohahau and Martin Taualo when leaving the stadium. I congratulated both on their extraordinary performances but was not sure it was fair to say anything after such a gut-wrenching loss.
To my surprise, they both shook my hand, engaged me in conversation, and closed by encouraging us to keep going and win the whole thing. I was so impressed by their poise and character at a time when most can't shake the immediacy of their disappointment.
You lead a great football program but also, if Seta and Martin are any measure, an exemplary group of young men.
– Parent of Palo Alto quarterback to Aragon High School football coach Steve Sell
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As the clock was ticking down to the final minutes of [Pioneer's] football game against Los Gatos, their running back scored a touchdown to make the score 19-0. Our players began getting ready for the extra point when they noticed one player was not getting up.
Trainers came onto the field to attend him. After 15 minutes the coaches decided to let the clock run down and not have Los Gatos kick the extra point. Despite their victory, their players did not celebrate.
Another 15 minutes went by. The Los Gatos team quietly went to their locker room. After a few minutes, we looked up to see the team coming back.
They formed a circle of solidarity, a message to all that what really mattered was this young man's health, not who won or lost.
Many were greatly moved by the actions of the Los Gatos team. They truly showed the meaning of Honor the Game
– Parent Coleen Montesano to Pioneer High School football coach Mark Krail
Many thanks for the above submissions to CIF assistant executive director Roger Blake, CIF Central Coast Section commissioner Nancy Blaser, and all the tipsters. They truly illustrate how an ethical environment can encourage more of the same.
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We'll send you one, too, if you send us your stories at CharacterCountssports@jiethics.org. Put "Jocks Behaving Exceptionally" in the subject box.
You can also report acts of good sportsmanship to the NCAA's Committee on Sportsmanship and Ethical Conduct by clicking here.
The secret of winning football games
is working as a team.
I play not my 11 best,
but my best 11.
-- Knute Rockne, college football coach (1888-1931)
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COMMENTARY BY
MICHAEL JOSEPHSON
Two Kinds of Coaching
What do you think? Do competitive sports build character? I think the fair answer is: It depends on the coach.
Great coaches, ones who care about their athletes as people and honor the traditional spirit of sport as the pursuit of team and individual excellence, are inevitably character builders. They are, first and foremost, teachers who measure their success not in victories or records but in their ability to help youngsters reach their highest potential.
Sure they teach techniques and strategies, but their words and actions also teach vital life skills and virtues like integrity, fairness, perseverance, courage, self-discipline, and all the graces associated with good sportsmanship. The people they coach not only become better performers, they become better human beings -- individuals you'd feel comfortable dating your own children.
On the other hand, coaches who have a more narrow view of their role measure success in terms of their won/lost record or in the number of all-star athletes they produce. Such persons often do more harm than good. Under these coaches, athletes often become more selfish, self-absorbed, arrogant, and unscrupulous in the pursuit of personal glory and achievements. Even such a coach wouldn't want to hang out with them.
It's no small danger to the future of our society and the welfare of our children that so many coaches fall into the second category. The recreational and educational goals of youth sports are too often undermined by volunteer as well as professional coaches who live out their fantasies or advance their careers at the cost of character.
Our children deserve better, and it's the job of parents and school principals to see that they get it.
This is Michael Josephson reminding you that character counts.
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