. www.CharacterCounts.org | www.JosephsonInstitute.org November 2009 Editor: John Wood

IN THIS ISSUE:

Special Issue
John Wooden

FRONT ROW

Happy Birthday, Coach
His Teacher-Coach Concept
His Philosophy
His Successors

His Influence

SIDELINE

Trivia Test: What Are His Favorite Mementos?
Sportsmanship User's Guide: A Parent Talks to a Child
You Make the Call: Who Is the Greatest Teacher-Coach in History?
Principle of the Month: Loving Competition More Than Winning
Trivia Test Answer
Michael Josephson Commentary:
John Wooden's Birthday


Young people need models, not critics.

Discipline yourself,
and others won't need to.

John Wooden


FRONT ROW

This special issue is dedicated to legendary student-athlete and teacher-coach John Wooden, whose principles and philosophy have contributed greatly to strengthening the character of America’s youth and upholding the spirit of athletic competition.

We hope you enjoy this issue and are inspired by the words, thoughts, vision, and humanity of one of
America’s greatest treasures.


HAPPY BIRTHDAY, COACH

It’s a joyous and momentous coincidence.

Just before our 16th National CHARACTER COUNTS! Week kicked off its annual weeklong celebration across the country last month highlighting the importance of character, Coach John Wooden celebrated his 99th birthday.

You see, John Wooden, more than anyone else I’ve known, proves that character counts.

Many of you have heard me talk about my occasional meetings with him and the uncharacteristic awe I felt in his presence. As I’ve said before, “You don’t just meet the Coach, you experience him.”

His conversations are often dotted with pithy quotes, wise aphorisms, and insightful poems, but he teaches his lessons not so much by his sayings but through his strength of character. He exudes an inner dignity and moral strength that makes you want to be better.

I’m sure John Wooden isn’t a perfect man, but he’s a darn good one – and we’re all lucky to have him among us. Happy birthday, Coach!

Michael Josephson

Send Coach Wooden your own birthday greeting here.


Adversity is the state in which man most easily becomes acquainted with himself.

What you are as a person
is far more important than what you are
as a basketball player.

– John Wooden


HIS TEACHER-COACH CONCEPT

In 1999, the Josephson Institute gathered nearly 50 of the world’s most influential men and women in amateur sports – coaches, administrators, officials, youth group leaders, and journalists in Scottsdale, Arizona, to develop major reforms in the way sports are administered, coached, played, officiated, parented, and watched. The result was the Arizona Sports Summit Accord.

The centerpiece of the conference was an interview with Coach Wooden conducted by sportscaster/host Bob Costas and Los Angeles Times sports editor Bill Dwyer.

I vividly remember how he transfixed the audience of sophisticated and powerful sports leaders, which included college presidents, athletic directors, and coaches who’d seen it all. They had no illusions about sports or sports heroes.

When the Coach spoke, however, they hung on every word. Not because his words were original or brilliant but because his manner was a profound declaration of the power of integrity and decency.

During the interview, he was asked about his decision to retire at the height of his success. When he casually referred to “the last game I ever taught,” he jolted the room with the simple eloquence of his description.

Here was the clear and potent image of a man who saw himself to be, above all, a teacher. Few of those who heard him had ever thought in terms of teaching as their primary role.

This was the backdrop for one of the most significant insights that pervades the Declaration of Principles that came out of that conclave. In Wooden’s words, “A coach is, first and foremost, a teacher with responsibilities that go beyond teaching the mental and physical dimensions of their sport.”

The document goes further stating, “Coaches, through words and example, must also strive to build the character of their athletes.”

Wooden always saw himself as a teacher. For years he taught English as well as coached basketball. In the last year he coached, after winning an unprecedented tenth NCAA championship, he earned less than $40,000. Although his program routinely attracted some of the best players in the country, he visited only two recruits in their home during his career.

He was an intense and passionate competitor who always wanted to win, yet he would bench a player before he hit the ground if he showboated, taunted, or scuffled with anyone. If any player discredited his uniform on or off the field, he would be dealt with sternly by the man who exemplified and demanded good character.

Other great coaches win and teach what it is to be a good person – Dean Smith, Joe Paterno, Pat Summit – but they seem to a breed on the way to extinction.

Today, top coaches are paid millions, not because they’re superb educators or teachers of character but because they put together winning teams. Even in high school, educational and character-building goals are often given little more than lip service.

Millions of youngsters play sports. If we give up on the idea of a teacher-coach, the loss to the nation will be inestimable. We shouldn’t settle for anything less.
– Michael Josephson


If you don’t have time to do it right,
when will you have time to do it over?

The main ingredient of stardom
is the rest of the team.

– John Wooden


HIS PHILOSOPHY

Henry David Thoreau said a philosopher is a person who seeks to understand and solve the most serious problems of life – not only theoretically but practically. A true philosopher, Thoreau added, is so committed to wisdom that he seeks to live wisely and so lives a life of simplicity, independence, magnanimity, and trust.

By this definition, John Wooden is every inch a great American philosopher. Here are some of his insights from Wooden: A Lifetime of Observations and Reflections On and Off the Court with Steve Jamison:

On learning: “Learn as if you were going to live forever, and live as if you were going to die tomorrow.”

On success: “You must be interested in finding the best way, not in having your own way.”

On role-modeling: “Superstars who don’t want the responsibility that comes with public acclaim don’t have that choice. They are role models whether they like it or not. They cannot simply announce that they intend to shirk their responsibility. They are role models, either good or bad. So are you. So am I. I believe we have an obligation to make that model a positive one.”

On trust: “It has been said that you will be hurt occasionally if you trust too much. This may be true, but you will live in torment if you do not trust enough.”

On perfection: “Perfection is an impossibility, but striving for perfection is not. Do the best you can. That is what counts.”

On management: “You’ll get better cooperation and results if you are sincerely interested in people’s families and interests, not simply how they do their job.”

On joy: “Mix idealism with realism and add hard work. This will often bring much more than you could ever hope for.”

On winning: “If you prepare properly, you may be outscored, but you will never lose. You always win when you make the full effort to do the best of which you’re capable.”

Obviously, these lessons for life go well beyond basketball. If we’re open to adjust our attitudes and change our behavior, we will live better lives. And as Wooden expected from all his players, we will become better people.
– Michael Josephson


Things turn out best for people who make the best of the way things turn out.

Success is never final.
Failure is never fatal.
It's courage that counts.

– John Wooden


HIS SUCCESSORS

Since John Wooden retired in 1975, eight coaches have followed in his footsteps.

Gene Bartow, Gary Cunningham, and Larry Brown coached two seasons. Larry Farmer and Walt Hazzard led the Bruins for three and four years respectively. Jim Harrick coached for eight seasons and won an 11th NCAA title in 1995. Steve Lavin was head coach for seven years. And now Ben Howland leads the program.

In a memorable 2003 article, Bill Dwyre of the Los Angeles Times asked Lavin and Howland what Wooden meant to them.

Lavin recalled a lunch he had with Wooden six weeks after Lavin had left the program. “We talked the usual stuff,” Lavin told Dwyre. “Pretty soon, he leans forward and says, ‘Steve, I want to tell you something, and I think it is important that you take this the right way and that it is something that only a former UCLA coach could understand. And I hope this doesn’t offend you.’

“Then he gets that twinkle in his eye and continues:

“‘You’re much better off.’”

When Lavin had gotten the job after a scandal sent Harrick packing, Wooden told him to stay in the moment. “He told me, ‘Do not have one foot in yesterday and one foot in tomorrow. Keep both feet in today because that’s how you get to tomorrow.’”

Lavin said he looked upon it as a young politician getting elected and getting on the phone with Lincoln or Washington. “There was John Wooden for me,” Lavin said. “It was like my own Mt. Rushmore coming to life.”

Although current coach Ben Howland trails Lavin in years of exposure to Wooden and the corresponding appreciation, Dwyre wrote that he does have one element figured out. “When you think of UCLA basketball, you think of John Wooden,” he said.

“There’s nothing I can do, nor anybody can do, to change that. Nor would I want to.”


You can’t let praise or criticism get to you. It’s a weakness to get caught up in either.

Consider the rights of others before your own feelings, and the feelings of others before your own rights.

– John Wooden


HIS INFLUENCE

Sports is one of the few places where life skill sets (integrity, perseverance, sacrifice, respect, responsibility, etc.) are formally taught.

It’s a powerful instrument in which to instill and enhance positive values and behavior in participants, spectators, and society and to promote the integrity of the game. It’s been said that sports builds character. In fact, it reveals character.

In 1999, the Josephson Institute convened more than four dozen leading American sports figures to develop a set of sportsmanship standards to guide administrators, coaches, and players from youth sports to collegiate sports to Olympic sports. The Arizona Sports Summit Accord includes 16 core principles. John Wooden was one of the attendees and signatories to the historic document.

Following on the Accord’s success, the Institute held a basketball summit in Kansas City in 2001 to address ethical and character-building issues in basketball. Attending were nearly 50 university presidents, conference commissioners, and major college coaches. The result was the Game Plan for Amateur Basketball.

In 2002, the Institute organized a third summit on youth sports in Los Angeles. Forty leaders from youth programs such as Little League, Pop Warner, AYSO, USA Volleyball, US Tennis, the Amateur Softball Association, and USA Hockey attended. The result was the Gold Medal Standards for Youth Sports.

All three of these documents reflect Coach Wooden’s philosophy. Learn more »


A coach is someone who can give correction without causing resentment.

Our team depended on two factors:
how hard they worked during practice and how well they behaved between practices.

– John Wooden



MICHAEL JOSEPHSON'S COMMENTARY

John Wooden’s 99th Birthday

COMMENTARYI feel extraordinarily blessed to have had the occasional honor and privilege to work with Coach Wooden in the past decade, and the power of his character continues to enlighten and inspire me.

I spent seven years at UCLA (from 1960-1967) admiring the enormously successful basketball teams he taught (that’s the phrase he likes to use). He was an authentic legend and a personal idol, and when I finally had a chance to meet him 30 years later, I feared I’d be disappointed.

My fears were unfounded. In fact, he exceeded my expectations.

I’d read a lot about him, but it didn’t prepare me for the experience of being with him.

John Wooden exudes an inner dignity, moral strength, and wisdom that is inspiring. His personal humility enhances the impression that you’re in the presence of a great man.

He has a way of making everyone he talks with feel important.

In our first meetings, he was embarrassingly respectful and deferential, calling me “Mr. Josephson” despite my requests that he use my first name.

On my 60th birthday, he wrote me a handwritten letter that’s one of my most cherished mementos. The letter was written in strong, clear handwriting one would not expect from someone his age, yet it was emblematic of this impeccable man.

Everything he says is imbued with integrity, respect, and kindness made so much more powerful because it’s genuine and effortless.

This is particularly humbling.

For me, striving to be a person of character involves a daily struggle. In comparison to Coach Wooden’s graceful authenticity, it sometimes feels as if I’m acting the part of a good person rather than really being one.

It’s disconcerting, but I’m glad I have such an incredible role model to encourage higher aspirations.

This is Michael Josephson reminding you that character counts.


Michael Josephson
Interviews John Wooden

CHARACTER COUNTS! founder and ethicist Michael Josephson sat down with John Wooden a few years ago, and the two chatted about the ideals of sports and what makes a real winner.

We’ve now made their conversation available to anyone who cares about playing, working, and living with honor. View their discussion here.

~ ~ ~

Be more concerned with your character than your reputation because your character is what you really are while your reputation is merely what others think you are.
– John Wooden

Failure is not fatal,
but failure to change might be.

– John Wooden


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TRIVIA TEST


John Wooden has received countless awards, gifts, and mementos during his career and afterward.

Which ones does he treasure the most?

See the answer below.

~ ~ ~

Material possessions, winning scores, and great reputations are meaningless in the eyes of the Lord because He knows what we really are, and that is all that matters.
– John Wooden



SPORTSMANSHIP USER’S GUIDE


A Parent Talks to a Child
Before the First Game

John Wooden has always understood the power of sports to teach good character and the responsibility of coaches and parents to guide young people so they can enjoy and grow from their athletic experience.

During one of my visits with this great teacher, he shared with me this poem from an unknown author. It’s worth sharing.
– Michael Josephson

This is your first game, my child.
I hope you win.
I hope you win for your sake, not mine.
Because winning’s nice.

It’s a good feeling.
Like the whole world is yours.
But it passes, this feeling.
And what lasts is what you’ve learned.
And what you learn about is life.

That’s what sports is all about. Life.
The whole thing is played out in an afternoon.
The happiness of life.
The miseries. The joys. The heartbreaks.

There’s no telling what’ll turn up.
There’s no telling whether they’ll toss you out in the first five minutes or whether you’ll stay for the long haul.
There’s no telling how you’ll do.

You might be a hero or you might be absolutely nothing.
There’s just no telling.
Too much depends on chance.
On how the ball bounces.

I’m not talking about the game, my child.
I’m talking about life.
But it’s life that the game is all about.
Just as I said.

Because every game is life. And life is a game.
A serious game. Dead serious.
But that’s what you do with serious things.
You do your best. You take what comes.
And you run with it.

Winning is fun. Sure.
But winning is not the point.
Wanting to win is the point.
Not giving up is the point.
Never being satisfied with what you’ve done is the point.
Never letting up is the point. Never letting anyone down is the point.

Play to win. Sure.
But lose like a champion.
Because it’s not winning that counts.
What counts is trying.

~ ~ ~

Never mistake activity for achievement.
– John Wooden

It’s the little details that are vital.
Little things make big things happen.

– John Wooden


YOU MAKE THE CALL

Who is the greatest
teacher-coach in history?*

  • Red Auerbach
  • Scotty Bowman
  • Paul Brown
  • Bear Bryant
  • Dan Gable
  • George Halas
  • Phil Jackson
  • Mike Krzyzewski
  • Tom Landry
  • Vince Lombardi
  • Tom Osborne
  • Joe Paterno
  • Eddie Robinson
  • Knute Rockne
  • Adolph Rupp
  • Don Shula
  • Dean Smith
  • Casey Stengel
  • Pat Summit
  • Joe Torre
  • Bill Walsh
  • Bud Wilkinson
  • John Wooden
  • Other

*in terms of victories, championships, character, and sportsmanship

Click here to vote

Results of Last Month’s Poll

Should world champion runner Caster Semenya, a hermaphrodite, be allowed to race as a woman?

Yes. She didn't cheat;
she was born that way.
42%
 
Yes, but her results shouldn't
count officially
5%
 
No, because few female runners
would want to compete against her.
5%
 
No, but she should be allowed to
race boys or men whose times
are comparable to hers.
25%
 
I'm not sure. 23%
 


~
~ ~

Do not let what you cannot do
interfere with what you can do.

– John Wooden

It’s not so important who starts the game but who finishes it.
– John Wooden


PRINCIPLE OF THE MONTH


Principle Nine:
Loving Competition
More Than Winning

Named “Coach of the Century” by ESPN and “Greatest Coach of All Time” by Sporting News, John Wooden knows how to win. In a winning-obsessed world, his observations are valuable.

“I wanted to win every single game I ever played in or coached,” he once said. “But I understood that ultimately the winning or losing may not be under my control. What was under my control was how I prepared myself and our team.

“I judged my success, my winning, on that. Winning games, titles, and championships isn't all it’s cracked up to be. Getting there, the journey, is a lot more than it’s cracked up to be.”

Instead of the win-at-any-cost perspective of so many athletes, coaches, and parents, Wooden’s way teaches us that there can and should be real joy in the passionate pursuit of victory, in the competition itself.

If you teach kids to love, not fear, competition and to prize effort and improvement, they will enjoy sports whether or not they outscore their opponents.

The Coach is fond of quoting this poem by legendary sportswriter Grantland Rice:

The Great Competitor

Beyond the winning and the goal,
beyond the glory and the flame,
He feels the flame within his soul,
born of the spirit of the game.

And where the barriers may wait,
built up by the opposing Gods,
He finds a thrill in bucking fate
and riding down the endless odds.

Where others wither in the fire
or fall below some raw mishap,
Where others lag behind
or tire and break beneath the handicap,

He finds a new and deeper thrill
to take him on the uphill spin,
Because the test is greater still,
and something he can revel in.

Principle Nine of the Arizona Sports Summit Accord states that sports programs “must assure that character-development responsibilities are not compromised to achieve sports performance goals and that the academic, emotional, physical, and moral well-being of athletes is always placed above desires and pressures to win.”

Nearly 50 influential leaders in sports issued the Arizona Sports Summit Accord in 1999 to encourage greater emphasis on the ethical and character-building aspects of athletic competition. Read the full text here.

~ ~ ~

Ability is a poor man’s wealth.
– John Wooden

If you're not making mistakes,
you're not doing anything.

– John Wooden

 

TRIVIA TEST ANSWER


Non-basketball accomplishments

The first time I was in Coach Wooden’s home, a small condominium in the San Fernando Valley, it struck me how well it suited this very special person.

Like the Coach, it was unpretentious, even understated. Too small, I thought, for such a great man. It was very clean, but cluttered with pictures of his children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren as well as books and scores of awards and inscribed gifts.

I asked him whether any had special meaning. He said he specially treasures recognition for things other than the performance of his basketball teams. Those, he humbly said, were earned by the talent of his players, not him.

Thus, he had special pride in a Big Ten Medal he won in 1932 for his athletics and, more importantly, scholarship. He then showed me a medal he was awarded for humanitarianism the year after one of his heroes, Mother Teresa, received the same award.

Finally, he pointed out and read me this poem written to him by Sven Nater, a former player. – Michael Josephson

I saw love once.
I saw it clear.
It had no leash.
It had no fear.

It gave itself
Without a thought.
No reservation
Had it bought.

It seemed so free
to demonstrate.
It seemed obsessed
To orchestrate.

A symphony,
Designed to feed,
Composed to lift,
The one in need.

Concern for others
Was its goal.
No matter what
Would be the toll.

It’s strange just how
Much care it stores
To recognize
Its neighbor’s sores.

And doesn’t rest
Until the day
It’s helped to take
The sores away.

Its joy retains
And does not run
Until the blessing’s
Job is done.

I saw love once,
‘Twas not pretend.
He was my coach.
He is my friend.

~ ~ ~

Winning takes talent.
To repeat takes character.

– John Wooden

Talent is God-given. Be humble.
Fame is man-given. Be grateful.
Conceit is self-given. Be careful.

– John Wooden

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