Pursuing Victory With Honor e-Newsletter
. www.CharacterCounts.org | www.JosephsonInstitute.org June 2010 Editor: John Wood

IN THIS ISSUE:

FRONT ROW

Youth Sports: Kids: Unsportsmanlike Behavior Is Rampant
Collegiate Sports: Wonderful Gesture or Poor Decision?
Jocks Behaving Badly:
• Coach’s Slap on Wrist Sets Gamesmanship Bar Lower
• Funny Golfer’s Jokes Were Out of Bounds
• “Friday Night Lights” School in Spotlight Again

Michael Josephson's Commentary:
Is It Part of the Game?


SIDELINES

Announcements
Trivia Test:
Who Is the Only Athlete to Win Titles With a Major League Baseball Team and an NBA Team?
You Make the Call: Was Grant Whybark’s Gesture Good or Bad Sportsmanship?
Principle of the Month: College Program on the Brink
Say What?
Trivia Test Answer


Success in this game
depends less on strength of body than strength of mind and character.

Arnold Palmer, golfer


FRONT ROW

YOUTH SPORTS

Kids: Unsportsmanlike
Behavior Is Rampant

A survey of more than 1,000 students in the United Kingdom revealed that 54 percent of school kids from ages 8 to 16 witness bad sportsmanship in every single school sports match they play.

The poll, conducted by the Cricket Foundation, found that kids often mimic what they see. Case in point, the majority of respondents said they’re willing to elbow, head-butt, and argue their way to victory. Over half admitted they would break rules in team games.

On the other hand, 72 percent of the kids said they would describe a professional athlete who played unfairly as a “cheat,” with only 4 percent saying they would consider such an the athlete “cool.”

The Cricket Foundation is launching a nationwide campaign across the U.K. to encourage good sportsmanship in school sports. “Fair play is something that should be taught at an early age,” declared Cricket Foundation chief executive Wasim Khan.

The problem is, according the same poll, 28 percent of parents said that teaching sportsmanship is the coach’s job, not theirs.

[news.bbc.co.uk, 4/26/10]


I never prayed that I would make a putt.
I prayed that I would react well if I missed.

– Chi Chi Rodriguez, golfer


COLLEGIATE SPORTS

Wonderful Gesture or Poor Decision?

Among the traditional “gentlemen” sports (cricket, tennis, golf, yachting, polo, rugby, etc.), golf arguably showcases more sportsmanship with countless examples throughout history.

But not all attempts succeed as planned.

At the conclusion of the Chicagoland Collegiate Athletic Conference championship at the Heritage Bluffs Public Golf Club in Channahon, Illinois, in April, two Illinois college golfers were tied after 72 holes: sophomore Grant Whybark from the University of St. Francis and senior Seth Doran from Olivet Nazarene.

The winner would automatically qualify for the National Association of Intercollegiate Athletics national championship on May 18-21. Doran had never been to the Nationals. Whybark had already secured a spot because of his team’s Chicagoland victory.

On the first playoff hole, Whybark stepped up to the tee first. He erroneously thought that both were going to the Nationals. “I made the comment to him on the tee, ‘We’re both in, right?’ And he said, ‘I don't know.’ We waited for my coach to come down and tell us.”

What they learned was that Doran would only qualify if he won the match. Whybark made a snap decision on what to do. “We all know Seth very well,” he told NBC Sports later. “He not only is a very good player but a great person. It just wasn’t in my heart to try to knock him out.”

So he purposely hit his ball out of bounds, resulting in a double bogey and the loss of the match. His act of compassion allowed Doran to win and qualify for his first Nationals.

“Makes you go all gooey inside, doesn’t it?” wrote NBC Sports columnist Mike Celizic. “The kid’s a sweetheart, the kind you wouldn’t mind dating your daughter, because you know he’s got a good heart. It was a selfless gesture by what seems to be a fine young man.

“But nice doesn’t make right. By yanking his ball off the course, he was suggesting that the only way Doran was going to win is if he [Whybark] messed up. It was a little arrogant – maybe a lot arrogant. Better to play the hole the way you’re supposed to. [Then] had Doran won, he’d forever have the memory of coming through under pressure and accomplishing something grand. Instead, he will always know he won only because his opponent purposely threw the match.”

Others shared Celizic’s opinion:

“If it had been me, I would have played the hole to the green and given the other guy an opportunity to win first.”
– Comment on sports.espn.go.com

“It would be interesting to see how this plays out, especially if Doran were to go on and somehow win the individual title.”
– Comment on sports.espn.go.com

“Good luck at nationals, Whybark. I hope Doran beats you by ten strokes.”
Crookston Daily Times sports editor Derek Martin

But even more sided with Whybark:

“If Grant did not act like a gentleman, I don’t know what a gentleman is. It was the ultimate in sportsmanship. It was a decision made by a young man wise beyond his years. What Grant decided to do in no way affected anyone else in a negative way.”
– John Keegan of Morris Country Club

“A downside to his actions? I can’t think of a downside to his actions.”
– Kurt Nolen of Nettle Creek

“He showed the entire nation something about the youth of America. Grant is setting the bar very high concerning what is really important in life.”
– Chris Hankins, Whybark’s former high school coach

“I am proud of Grant. He looked beyond himself and was thinking about someone else. The other youngster said if the shoe had been on the other foot, he would have done the same thing. I used to compete in track, and I always wanted to whip that guy next to me. But golfers are not like track guys. They are out there pulling for each other.”
– Paul Downey, Whybark’s current college coach

Last word goes to Celizic, who concluded by saying Doran wasn’t without fault. “If he’d been thinking clearly, he would have hooked his drive even farther out of bounds than Whybark did, looked at his opponent, and said, ‘Now we’re even. Quit fooling around and play golf.’”

[nbcsports.msnbc.com, 5/6/10]

 

It’s good sportsmanship to not pick up
lost golf balls while they are still rolling.

– Mark Twain, author and humorist (1835-1910)


JOCKS BEHAVING BADLY

Coach’s Slap on Wrist Sets Gamesmanship Bar Lower

With the last event remaining – the pole vault – only a handful of points separated Monrovia and South Pasadena girls high school track and field teams in a meet at South Pasadena, California, on April 29. The winner would clinch the Rio Hondo League title.

Monrovia, which had never won the crown, held a slim lead – two of its vaulters had cleared 7 feet and one South Pasadena vaulter had cleared 7’6”. South Pasadena’s final vaulter would determine the meet. She was Robin Laird, their best vaulter. She took off and soared easily over the crossbar. South Pasadena had won.

As Laird and her teammates celebrated, Monrovia’s coach Mike Knowles, a veteran of 30 years coaching track, walked up to an official, tapped his wrist, and pointed at Laird. On one of her wrists was a thin string bracelet that she wore to support a club that was raising money for the World Wildlife Fund.

Section 3, Article 3 of the National Federation of State High School Associations states that “Jewelry shall not be worn by contestants.” It’s particularly important in the pole vault because a bracelet could inadvertently wrap around the pole upon release and pose a grave danger to the athlete.

Laird was disqualified. South Pasadena’s 66-61 victory turned into a 65-62 win for Monrovia.

Laird burst into tears. Her coach P.J. Hernandez confronted Knowles. “Coach, you really want it to come down to this?”

Apparently he did. “It’s unfortunate for the young lady,” Knowles told Sports Illustrated afterward. “But you’ve got to teach the kids that rules are rules. I didn’t want to have to do it. About 10 years ago, I had a girl who wore an earring in the 4x400 relay, and it ended up costing us a CIF title. I feel bad for what happened, but I guarantee you she’ll never wear jewelry during a track meet again.”

The issue was Knowles’s timing and motive. If he was concerned for her safety, why didn’t he warn her or alert the officials before she vaulted?

“Mike Knowles was down by the pole vault pit, keeping an eye on our girl, waiting for her to attempt the vault and then make the call,” Hernandez told SI. “I’m upset that he wanted to win so badly that he would do it that way. We feel sportsmanship is important, too, and it is in question with him in this situation.”

Knowles insists that he didn’t notice the bracelet until after she cleared the height and walked by. This is his first season coaching at Monrovia. Before that, he coached Muir High School to nine CIF-Southern Section championships and three state crowns.

The incident ignited a national storm of protest. On Deadspin.com, Dashiell Bennett wrote: “All you need to know about Mike Knowles is that he knows exactly how terrible it feels to get robbed on a crybaby technicality – and given the opportunity to be a good sport a decade later, he chose to make someone else feel the same way he did.”

Another blogger added: “I can’t wait to see the look on his face when he finds out that Laird’s bracelet was in support of people who suffer from Napoleon Syndrome.”

To Monrovia High School’s credit, the administration has undergone extensive soul-searching since the firestorm. Co-athletic director Randy Bell told SI that the incident was not “anything people were particularly proud of. I don’t think anybody was excited to win that way.”

Days later, Richard Gretebeck, the other co-AD, contacted Josephson Institute. “If I have car trouble, I call a mechanic. If I break the law, I call a lawyer. If I have a moral issue, I call you. I need some guidance here,” he told us.

He said the school had been inundated with calls for Knowles’s ouster, and its reputation had been tarnished. “I’m pondering what the right thing to do is. There are no winners here. I understand what happened at the meet. Let the best athletes do their best. I get it.”

But at the same time, he added, South Pasadena should pony up some of the responsibility. No one there – Laird, her teammates, or their coaches – either noticed or were aware of the disqualifying infraction. “My philosophy is, before I look at other ducks, I make sure my ducks better be in a row.”

He revealed officials from Monrovia would meet with the AD and principal at South Pasadena High in the next few days to discuss the incident and ease tensions. “We all need to educate our coaches, staff, and athletes to do what’s morally and ethically right.”

As for Laird, she conceded that Knowles was right. “I still have a tan line on my wrist,” she told SI. “That’s my scarlet letter.”

[deadspin.com, 5/11/10; si.printthis.clickability.com, 5/11/10]


Funny Golfer’s Jokes
Were Out of Bounds

Lee Trevino was renowned for his hilarity while competing. So, too, were Chi Chi Rodriguez, Gary McCord, David Feherty, Peter Jacobsen, and others.

Notre Dame senior Annie Brophy won’t be among that list.

After shooting an 85 and 81 in the first two rounds of a NCAA Central Regional tournament in Columbus, Ohio, last month, Brophy felt like goofing around during the third round by falsely informing the roving scorekeepers, who keep track of scores every three holes and then post them on the leaderboard, that she was killing the course that day, racking up five birdies and an eagle through just the first nine holes.

She had no intention of signing her card with those numbers; she was just having fun, thinking that reporting scores during a round was unofficial. What she wasn’t doing was thinking about the consequences that might result from doing so.

Unbeknownst to her, the scores she reported changed the leaderboard so significantly that teams from Florida State, Oregon, and Kent State were forced to wait around, thinking they might get into a playoff.

On the 15th hole, NCAA officials caught up with Brophy, informed her she’d been disqualified, and pulled her off the course.

“Obviously it was not funny,” Brophy told the Associated Press afterward. “I did not think about long-term effects and consequences of my actions.”

[sports.espn.go.com, 5/10/10]


“Friday Night Lights” School
in Spotlight Again

In 1990, journalist H.G. Bissinger wrote Friday Night Lights: A Town, a Team, and a Dream, a best-selling book about the 1988 Permian High School Panthers football team from Odessa, Texas, as they made a run toward the state championship.

Sports Illustrated called it the best book ever written about football and the fourth greatest sports book ever. The story became a successful movie and popular television series.

Last year, Permian was involved in another potential rags-to-riches tale, but unfortunately, this story didn’t end happily.

In 2009, 16-year-old homeless student Jerry Joseph enrolled at Permian and tried out for the basketball team. Immediately impressed by the young man, Coach Danny Wright took him into his family.

Joseph, 6’5”, also impressed him on the basketball court, helping to lead Permian to the District 2-5A state playoffs and being named Newcomer of the Year. It was starting to look like “Friday Night Lights 2.

And it very well may have until three Florida basketball coaches observing him two months ago at an amateur tournament in Little Rock, Arkansas, all said the same thing: “Hey, isn’t that Guerdwich Montimere?”

Montimere, a 22-year-old naturalized citizen from Haiti, had been a star high school player at Dillard High School in Fort Lauderdale several years before. The suspicious officials alerted Permian, which contacted U.S. Immigration.

Last month, Montimere, aka Jerry Joseph, was arrested at school and booked on presenting false identification to a police officer. If convicted, he could face up to six months in jail and a $2,500 fine.

“I feel like I was hit by a ton of bricks,” district athletic director Leon Fuller told the Associated Press. “In my 50 years in education, I’ve never heard of anything like this.” Permian will most likely have to forfeit its 2009 basketball season.

Coach Wright, who had done so much for the boy, felt betrayed. “This affected a lot of people. The whole school embraced that kid. He deceived us and played on everyone’s emotions.”

[sports.espn.go.com, 5/12/10]

 

A kid grows up a lot faster
on the golf course.
Golf teaches you how to behave.

– Jack Nicklaus, golfer


MICHAEL JOSEPHSON'S COMMENTARY

COMMENTARY

Is It Part of the Game?

With the World Cup about to commence, it brings to mind the commentary I wrote a decade ago about Briana Scurry, the American goalie who admitted violating the rules to block China’s crucial last shot attempt during the famous penalty kick shootout in the final of the 1999 women’s World Cup.

Scurry's transgression was to move forward before the ball was kicked. She later admitted that she “came out early” hoping the referee wouldn't call the foul. She guessed right.

Her block kept the score at 4-4 with only Brandi Chastain left to shoot. She scored and won the Cup for the U.S., famously dropping to her knees and whipping off her shirt.

Some listeners thought my advocacy of pursuing victory with honor in that situation was naïve. Advocates of “whatever-you-can-get-away-with” gamesmanship theories argued that in the real world, winners do whatever works.

In their minds, it’s proper to teach soccer players how to slyly hold, trip, or intimidate opponents because “it’s part of the game.”

Well, saying something is part of the game evades the responsibility we have to define the game. Something is part of the game only if we say it is. The question is, do we want deliberate rule-breaking to be part of the game?

We’re not talking about overanxious or inadvertent violations; we’re talking about calculated, planned attempts to break a rule and get away with it.

I don’t think Ms. Scurry is a bad person. Certainly there was ample precedent for her conduct. In fact, her coach said that U.S. teams ought to play with that kind of “sophistication” more often.

The problem is knowing where to draw the line. Why not disable a competitor if it will give a competitive edge?

The goalie had two justifications. First, she evoked the credo of moral relativists: “Everybody does it.” Second, she said, “It’s only cheating if you get caught.”

Knowing the impact of sports on our culture and the character of our young, we can’t let these statements go unchallenged.

As it happens, everyone doesn’t do it. In fact, game films showed that the Chinese goalie followed the rules.

And we can’t endorse her definition of cheating. Cheating is defined as deliberately violating the rules of a game. It doesn’t say anything about getting caught.

In the world I want my children to grow up in, cheating is wrong.

This is Michael Josephson reminding you that character counts.

For an archive of Mr. Josephson’s commentaries, click here.


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TRIVIA TEST



Who Is the Only Athlete to Win Titles With a Major League Baseball Team and an NBA Team?

See the answer below.

 

YOU MAKE THE CALL


Was Grant Whybark’s Gesture Good or Bad Sportsmanship?

See “Wonderful Gesture or Poor Decision?” in lefthand column for background on this incident.

  • Grant’s gesture was wonderful and the right one under the circumstances.
  • Grant’s gesture was wonderful, but he could have accomplished it better.
  • Grant’s gesture was wrong on every level.
  • I'm not sure.

    Click here to vote


Results of Last Month’s Poll

If you were an NFL owner, would you want Ben Roethlisberger (proven skills, questionable character) or Tim Tebow (unproven skills, exemplary character) as your quarterback?

Ben Roethlisberger 6%
 
Tim Tebow 84%
 
Neither 7%
 
I don't know 1%
 
 



PRINCIPLE OF THE MONTH

 

Principle Nine: College Program on the Brink

Principle Nine of the Arizona Sports Summit Accord states that “School boards, superintendents, principals, school administrators, and everyone involved in sports program governance must maintain ultimate responsibility for the quality and integrity of those programs.”

So what’s happening at the University of Oregon?

The Ducks’ revamped athletic department, thanks to hundreds of millions of dollars donated by Nike co-founder and Oregon alum Phil Knight, has helped the university soar into national prominence in recent years, primarily in football, where the team reached the Rose Bowl last year and its quarterback was touted as a Heisman Trophy candidate in 2010.

What could possibly go wrong?

For one, the state attorney general has launched an investigation into the $2.3 million buyout of Athletic Director Mike Bellotti, the former coach whose contract was a handshake agreement.

For another, Oregon’s overly long search for a new basketball coach caused three prize recruits to bolt.

For still another, the university must find a way to make bond payments on their new $227 million basketball arena.

And then there are the football incidents:

  • Football player LeGarrette Blount sucker-punched an opponent on national television.
  • Linebacker Kiko Alonso was arrested for driving under the influence.
  • Receiver Jamere Holland cursed out his coach on his Facebook page.
  • Running back LaMichael James and kicker Roy Beard pleaded guilty for physically harassing women.
  • Quarterback Jeremiah Masoli pleaded guilty for robbery.

Nathan Tublitz, president of the university senate, told The New York Times “The athletic department is out of control here.”

But there may be good news. Chip Kelly, the new no-nonsense football coach, promptly dismissed three players, including Holland, suspended James and Beard for at least one game, and suspended Alonso and Masoli for the entire 2010 season.

“Kids are 18 to 22 years old,” he told the Times. “They’re going to make mistakes. When they do, there will be punishment.”

Nearly 50 influential leaders in sports issued the Arizona Sports Summit Accord in 1999 to encourage greater emphasis on the ethical and character-building aspects of athletic competition. Read the full text here.

 
SAY WHAT?


“I had not heard that many people talking about a white Bronco since Al Cowling was driving O.J. Simpson.”
Miami Herald writer Greg Cote on the Denver Broncos drafting Tim Tebow

“I was a little disappointed. I thought they were there for me, to be honest.”
– Golfer Jason Bohn, Tiger Woods’s partner during the final round of The Players Championship, after Woods, the gallery, and Woods’s security contingent departed when Woods withdrew

“To protest Arizona’s new immigration law, the Phoenix Suns are wearing jerseys that read ‘Los Suns.’ Thankfully, they can get the jerseys made quickly using an illegal sweatshop.”
– Comedian Jay Leno

“So he now only nibbles on ears of corn.”
Los Angeles Times reader Bill Littlejohn on Mike Tyson becoming a vegan

“Brian Cushing cheated his [backside] off and you don’t care. The double standard and excuse-making for football is alive and well. If this were baseball and Cushing were bashing homers instead of skulls, there would be presidential inquiries. But this is football. Land of the needle. Land of the juice. And you don’t care.”
– Writer Mike Freeman of CBSSports.com

“The International Olympic Committee stripped China of its bronze medal in the women’s team gymnastics event from the 2000 Olympics because they fielded an underage athlete. Ten years later, when she still hadn’t finished high school, they figured it out.”
– Comedian Jimmy Kimmel

“Man, I’d hate to be the IOC repo man who has to go to China and take those medals off the necks of those girls’ Barbie dolls.”
San Francisco Chronicle writer Scott Ostler on the IOC stripping the 2000 Chinese women’s gymnasts of their bronze team medals

“How ironic that maybe the greatest defender of all time has no better defense than that.”
Miami Herald writer Greg Cote on former Giants star Lawrence Taylor who, after being charged with raping a 16-year-old girl, admitted in court that “I didn’t know her age.”

“A weak commissioner does what Selig did – nothing. Welcome back, big guy. Please work in a supervisory position with young players. Yeah, that’s a good idea. Every time McGwire comes out of a dugout wearing a baseball uniform, there will be disgraceful reminders of what he did and what you didn’t.”
Philadelphia Inquirer writer Bob Ford questioning why baseball commissioner Bud Selig didn’t ban Mark McGwire from coaching

“Miami Dolphins General Manager Jeff Ireland apologized for asking NFL draftee Dez Bryant if his mom was a prostitute. Insulting the character of a wide receiver’s mother is the opposing linebacker’s job.”
– Comedian Argus Hamilton

“The Kentucky Derby is still the most exciting two minutes in sports if you aren’t willing to count Thanksgiving at Tiger Woods’s house.”
New York Daily News writer Mike Lupica

“I don’t understand the United Nations. They selected Iran to sit on the U.N.’s women’s rights panel. Also on the panel: Ben Roethlisberger, Chris Brown, Phil Spector, Robert Blake, and O.J. Simpson.”
– Comedian Jay Leno

~ Classic From the Past ~

“Are you any relation to your brother Marv?”
– Basketball player Leon Wood to announcer Steve Albert


 

TRIVIA TEST ANSWER

Gene Conley

Gene Conley.

Conley was a pitcher on the 1957 Milwaukee Braves championship team and a forward on the Boston Celtics championship teams of 1959, 1960, and 1961.

As a pitcher, he compiled a 91-96 lifetime record over 11 seasons with four different teams. Named to three All-Star Teams, he was the winning pitcher in the 1955 All-Star Game.

As a basketball player, he played for the Wilkes-Barre Barons of the American Basketball League and then spent six seasons in the NBA with the New York Knicks and Celtics, averaging 6.5 rebounds in just 16 minutes a game.

 

 

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